True leaders emerge during
times of trouble, turmoil and strife – riding the strength of their convictions
to success – then thrive as conditions improve.
While there should be very little difference in your leadership style
when facing unexpected hurdles (whether at work or at home), far too many
“competent” individuals excuse their actions (or inactivity) by blaming them on
or deferring them to others. They bend
to fit into their surroundings rather than standing firmly against life’s
storms. Seeking short term-gain
(popularity, acceptance, being “liked”) often damages long-term credibility
(predictability, consistency, being “fair.”).
Some examples of BOTH an
appropriate action AND a “fall back” reaction would include the following:
A company is experiencing
tough economic times and has asked Management to trim expenses. Two approaches to this situation might be:
- Inform employees that cutbacks and layoffs might be necessary due
to reduced sales and increased inventory.
Task departments with the responsibility to find ways expenses
might be cut with a minimal impact on staff by identifying productive work
that could be done so that all staff can continue working while
contributing to the bottom line.
- Tell staff to “look busy” because “top management” is out to cut employees and you do not want any of “your people” to be impacted. In showing compassion to employees by “building a bridge with staff based on a mutual fear of top management,” this type of manager may avoid the “blame bullet” but will never earn recognition as a leader. Deferring responsibility to someone else moves an individual from being an integral part of the solution to being an expendable part of the problem.
A Leader takes ownership of his or her
actions. By taking ownership of a
situation rather than blaming another for an unfortunate circumstance, a good
manager accepts and faces reality. He
or she affirms that things are tough (most employees probably already known this
and are waiting for affirmation). After
stating facts, employees are asked to be involved in the development of a
solution (getting “buy-in” will make even a mediocre idea achievable). Painting a realistic picture of what could
happen establishes ownership of the situation and adds urgency to resolving the
problem. Blaming someone else in order
to remain friends or be popular is not a long-term solution. A Leader, by the very nature of his or her
work, leads (if not, he or she should either follow or get out of the way!). Though accepting responsibility for decisions
(even when they negatively affect the lives of others) is not always the
easiest thing to do, it is always more acceptable than deferring the decision
to another (“management says I have…”). Your
employees may not see you as their “friend” when you personalize your
supervisory responsibilities but you will earn their respect when you are fair,
consistent and predictable.
An individual has made a “bad
decision” that could seriously hurt another’s feelings and tarnish his/her reputation. No lasting damage was done nor was any
long-term relationship destroyed but issues of trust and credibility may be involved. There are always more than one way to address
and resolve our personal failings but which of these three approaches might
most match your first response (and is that the same as the “best”
alternative)?
- Ignore the situation and hope it goes away. The individual whom may be harmed has
not heard anything of your actions and you do not believe he or she ever
will. Adhering to the tenant “if it
is not broke, do not try to fix it,” you walk around the elephant in the
room and move on as if nothing ever happened.
- Come forward and tell part of the tale – enough to scratch the
surface so if something “leaks” the person will be prepared and aware even
if the full extent of the discretion has not been revealed but not enough
to “spill the beans” or establish responsibility. If additional details come out you can
always discount the account or blame someone else for putting you up to
it. It is easier, after all, to ask
forgiveness than to seek permission.
- Fall on the sword, so to speak, by telling all and resolving to change. Do not blame another – accept responsibility for your actions and deal with their repercussions. Do not needlessly or intentionally hurt another in the recounting of your tale but make sure that you have learned from your mistake so that it does not become a recurring habit.
Gaining respect and credibility is far better
than trying to be a friend to those you manage.
Learning how to ask the right questions when investigating a situation –
then listening to hear the truthful answer – will help you see “the forest from
the trees.” Fools rush in – leaders learn to step back so they can ask why
something was done rather than constantly pushing forward to address only what happened. A
Leader takes his or her personal obligations more seriously than their work
expectations. Trust cannot be exhibited
for a day unless it is consistently demonstrated throughout an individual’s
life. While taking the easy road
(ignoring a situation or partially revealing a truth) may be less painful and
create fewer short-term disruptions, individuals preferring to dodge
responsibility for their choices and actions will never be seen as credible
leaders when they are provided the opportunity to lead. Great leaders thoughtfully and carefully
consider all their decisions BEFORE they are made, making sure they are willing
and able to accept the results of their actions so they can move forward with
confidence to accept the rewards (or deal with the repercussions) of their
actions.
We are bound to fall victim
to our human vulnerabilities as we strive to become better leaders UNLESS we
intentionally take the road less traveled rather than the easy path as it
often produces a more ethical direction.
Remain true to your values – transferring the skills and aptitudes you
demonstrate on a personal level to the workplace – as you say what you believe
and do what you know to be right. Praise
often and loudly – criticize only when necessary (then only constructively) and
in private. Be the leader you were
destined to become by equipping yourself with the tools necessary to accomplish
the task – seeking and participating in training designed to maximize your ability
to motivate others.
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