Far too
many people complain more about the disturbances, distractions, and annoyances in
their lives than they celebrate the opportunities to learn, grow, and
develop by handling the fallout from the disturbances they may face. We dwell
upon the fact that others possess the attributes we want rather than embracing and
exhibiting our individual gifts and abilities. Instead of finding satisfaction
in all we have accomplished, some see only what has not been finished due to a lack
of time or how much better a job could have done “if only” more time had been
given. Rather than acknowledging how we impacted another while focusing upon changing
our own expectations (and ways of doing things) we often prefer to think about
what was not done and how much more should have been accomplished (rather than
being happy for what was done and building upon it to accomplish more).
Everyone
can lose themselves in thoughts about what COULD HAVE BEEN. It is easy to dwell
on lost opportunity – to excuse a lack of execution by saying that the time for
action has passed (or it is not worth the effort needed to initiate action) since
“things are OK now” (though they COULD be better). It is harder (but much more
rewarding) to consider WHAT MAY YET BE – to seek and anticipate issues not yet
identified and commit to their being accomplished – accepting each minor success
as but a step on the road towards the fulfillment of a dream. Life is not
measured by the time it takes to accomplish our objectives but rather by the
objectives we are able to accomplish – not by how long (or short) a time it
takes to do SOMETHING but rather by the impact we are able to make upon the
lives of those around us as we act within the time we are given. We must define
objectives and measure accomplishments (rather than overly documenting steps
and focusing upon the time it takes to accomplish things) if we wish to invest the
limited time we are given wisely.
Perhaps
the return on our investment would be much greater if we thought more about
alternatives – opportunities to explore areas not previously identified – rather
than dwelling upon how (we sometimes wish) we could live within our normal
routine seeking satisfaction from completing our assigned objectives.
Many often find themselves buried by the details of what must be finished prior to something new beginning rather than truly celebrating all we have done while seeking closure to the opportunities that require our attention. We should seek fulfilment in life by identifying unresolved issues and exploring possible solutions rather than making excuses for unintentional omissions that result in unintended consequences. We should find peace within the hectic world around us, taking our lives back from the clock as it ticks relentlessly on. Time should never become a measurement of how long it takes to fulfill our destiny – it should never become the measure upon which our identity, success and accomplishments can be monitored – but rather a parameter in which to identify our accomplishments, measure our abilities and strive for the realization of objectives (rather than focusing upon and accepting the path it took so get there as the only way something might be done).
Time
invested wisely can never be wasted but wasting time worrying about how it may
have been inappropriately spent (by yourself OR others) is never a good
investment. Choose wisely as one can either master time (reaping the rewards of
their investments) or be mastered by time (never accomplishing what we wish to
do or seeing what we want to experience). The choice is up to each of us – to either
be a victim of our self-imposed boundaries or a champion of those things not
yet identified and seen.
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