THINGS ARE REVEALED TO THOSE WHO SEEK (AND PROVIDED TO THOSE WHO ACT)

Those who continually seek that which they do not have – who reach for the stars without differentiating whether it is night or day – who always seem to want what others have because they feel their own gifts or abilities are somehow inferior – will probably always be lacking. They will never feel that they have “arrived” as they are always “seeking to go” in a different direction. They are like seeds drifting upon the winds – moving from one place to another without ever taking root so that they might grow. They may enjoy many starts and stops in life – travelling upon a multitude of roads yet experiencing much frustration for they seldom remain on one path long enough to discover a destination. Rather than living their own life and experiencing the richness it might bring they ride upon the coat tails of others, skimming their enjoyment from the surface of life’s ocean – plucking only the floating debris left behind rather than diving deeply to find treasures of their own.

Those who feel they have all they could ever need – who do not desire any reward beyond what they have achieved – who always find comfort in “what is” rather than being curious about “what could be” – will probably find contentment in their life but may never realize their full potential. People finding happiness in the “here and now” without ever seeking to expand their horizons often live lives that are “safe” yet uneventful. They find that travelling a familiar path to a known destination provides contentment and predictability – an outcome that may not excite but that will never disappoint. They seek to avoid disillusionment by holding tightly to what is known – to eliminate defeat by seeking only that which will foster and perpetuate ongoing rewards (regardless of how large or small the reward might be). Though many find comfort within the familiar walls of a predictable reality, few that do find the joy of discovery. Though many find contentment within a predictable world, few of them find their dreams fulfilled (if they allow themselves to dream) or their future altered drastically (while they seek shelter from life’s storms within their established safe harbor). When one believes that nothing else exists or is needed beyond what is present within their “here and now” they tend to forfeit any thought of the possible due to their deeply rooted belief in the probable.

The secret to being all that you can be – to balancing your abilities against your capabilities while blending the comfort of where you are with the promise of what you might wish to achieve – is in setting realistic goals that stretch your reality from what is to what has not yet been accomplished. Intentional action must be initiated if change is desired – for to see or experience new things one must physically, emotionally and perceptually alter the current situation in such a way as to tear down the confining walls of “what is” and exchange them for limitless sea of “what could be.” While one may never fail without established goals, how can one measure progress unless an objective – or destination – has been determined?  How can one move forward if they do not know when to stop – or even when to start – doing something different? While one rarely tastes defeat when choosing to live within their familiar world, they cannot savor those things not previously considered possible until they decide to act differently rather than simply expecting altered results without changing their predictable behavior.

Life is not a spectator sport – it is an interactive opportunity to transform the present into the future (but does not do so on its own). Life provides us with the canvas upon which dreams may become reality (but we must act if we are to create such a masterpiece for it will not be painted on its own). Knowing the right answers to questions asked by another might help us overcome obstacles that could hinder our progress as we seek to accomplish defined things but leveraging our knowledge and experience to ask the right questions is much more fulfilling. Like planting seeds – if nurtured and cared for, our ideas will be brought to fruition but if planted and ignored they will die out and become overrun with weeds. When we act upon the information received from the questions we ask, our dreams will grow and become seeds ready for harvest. Recognize, though, that as much as it might wish to become an apple tree, a cherry pit will not grow into anything other than a cherry tree. In the same manner, our ideas and dreams must be plausible – we must have the knowledge, skill and ability to act once a path to success has been identified – if we are to enjoy the things found through our seeking, receive the benefits of our asking and achieve the rewards of accomplishing the goals we establish. We must seek before we can find. We must ask before we can receive. In order to achieve, we must act intentionally upon the information we discover while seeking and incorporate what we learn when asking. Seek to find and ask to receive BUT do not fail to act intentionally upon the information found and the wisdom received in order to achieve!